Love is a choice
THE PAST AND PRESENT
believe in your dreams
The 5 Love Languages Part 2
The 5 Love Languages
It is easy to be happy
Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light. -Helen Keller
Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success. ..........Swami Sivananda
“You may find the worst enemy or best friend in yourself.” – English Proverb
Trend - a friend or a monster
“There is no life that is not ultimately frustrating.”
--------Eckhart Tolle
one day,
One of my old friends called me unexpectedly. He studied from good institution, he was good at studies, he was an all rounder person but that day he seemed frustrating, tensed and worried. I asked him about the problem . he replied that he doesn't find life interesting. he always found himself trapped in worries related to studies, good job, future etc. He found himself in great dilemma related to choices.
So why was he in dilemma ?
frustration is common to every person. we human beings have the ability to feel every situation which we come across.
But why we get ourself trapped in Stress and tension ?
The Reason is :
In recent times, every one is trying to fit themselves in the society in one or other way.
When we grow, our parents send us to the school that has highest number of students.
when we choose our fields of study, we generally choose the field that can provide us good opportunities of job in future.
we choose our clothing related to the present trend.
we follow one or the other in every aspect of our life.
That is the bitter truth of life.
until we stop forcing ourselves to fit into the society, we will continue forcing towards Anxiety.
Following trends make us slaves of trends, our ability to think about the situation vanishes. we found ourselves in dilemma to make relevant choices.
what will happen if you fail to get the job ? Will you die of Hunger? NO NO NO
I can assure you that you will get food.
What will happen if you fail to fulfill your dreams ?
will not you get satisfied even if you fail ? ask yourselves.
why don't we do things that can make ourselves happy , even if society don't accept it?
Don't you think following trends made by other are a making our lives complicated and full of Anxiety ?
Shouldn't we try to chose our path even if it is different ?
Believe in GOD, Believe on yourselves.
Believe in your trend. You are one of the unique souls. you have your own trend.
Have faith of GOD and choose the path that can give satisfaction to your heart. even if you don't anything with you.
THE REALITY OF GOALS
The Goal have values when you achieve it on time.
Failing to achieve it on time means that it is right time for you to leave that dream and move forward to the next level of life.
Life gives you levels but never asks you complete it, you have the choice to complete the level or achieve the level you want to achieve.
Suppose if you are competing with many people for a similar type of goal or you are participating in a competition and you finish last. some of your friends who were also participating in that got positions. you may get depressed. At that time you have to understand that goal was not destined for you to achieve.
Similarly life gives you levels or goals to achieve, if you fail and again start the level to achieve success. you may not get the same thrill while achieving it.
this Success means nothing to your personality development.
Trying another goal can make you wiser and independent.
Achieving previous goals can't give higher degree of satisfaction.
So
CONTINUE DREAMING AND MAKING GOALS EVEN IF ONE FAIL THERE ARE CHANCES THAT OTHER WILL FILL YOUR LIFE WITH THE TYPE OF HAPPINESS DESIRED BY YOU.
LIFE IS SHORT, KEEP EXPLORING LIFE.
DON'T STICK WITH ONE GOAL. HOPE YOU MAY DO MIRACLES WITH SOME OTHER GOAL.
Failing to achieve it on time means that it is right time for you to leave that dream and move forward to the next level of life.
Life gives you levels but never asks you complete it, you have the choice to complete the level or achieve the level you want to achieve.
Suppose if you are competing with many people for a similar type of goal or you are participating in a competition and you finish last. some of your friends who were also participating in that got positions. you may get depressed. At that time you have to understand that goal was not destined for you to achieve.
Similarly life gives you levels or goals to achieve, if you fail and again start the level to achieve success. you may not get the same thrill while achieving it.
this Success means nothing to your personality development.
Trying another goal can make you wiser and independent.
Achieving previous goals can't give higher degree of satisfaction.
So
CONTINUE DREAMING AND MAKING GOALS EVEN IF ONE FAIL THERE ARE CHANCES THAT OTHER WILL FILL YOUR LIFE WITH THE TYPE OF HAPPINESS DESIRED BY YOU.
LIFE IS SHORT, KEEP EXPLORING LIFE.
DON'T STICK WITH ONE GOAL. HOPE YOU MAY DO MIRACLES WITH SOME OTHER GOAL.
A Reality of Dreams
WHY DO WE DREAM ?
why don't our dream comes true ?
what happens when a dream don't come true?
when you fail to fulfill a dream
The surety of success comes when you start working harder than the person with whom you are competing.
people says that
- you haven't worked harder
- you got engaged in other activities
- you have not planned well
- you did hard work, not smart work , bla bla bla
Dreams are just meant to be seen while sleeping.
No dream ever came true.
there is an idea that comes true.
Mark zuckerberg never dreamt of launching Facebook
he acquired a billion dollar idea through his studies, work experience and his vision to connect people. He started working on that billion dollar idea. He worked harder and succeeded to make a website that can connect people.
Steve Jobs never dreamt of making a revolution in the field of information technology.
he just acquire an idea to make a machine that can code data.
He worked on it for years and revolutionized IT sector.
- Stop dreaming
Try to focus on reality, because if you make yourself engaged in dreaming you will miss the time to work and loose you positive energy for no reason.
- Try to have vision
there are millions of people that works daily but there are very less people who works for a vision.
when you start working to fulfill your vision then you will definitely achieve it in a very short duration of time
- Never let your idea broke into pieces
if we simply give up on that idea then the probability of failure comes to zero, but if we get ourselves engaged in some other activities for a short duration of time. then probability of success remains considerably.
- Stop comparing your idea with someone else's idea
when we try to be like others or follow someone else idea
then we remain a mere follower of that person, we will never be able to succeed .
you have a unique soul, means you have a unique work to do , means you have your vision , and you have make your identity through your vision.
- great idea need hard work
The surety of success comes when you start working harder than the person with whom you are competing.
people says that LIFE IS NOT A RACE .
But according to me life a race only when more than one person have that enchant idea in common.
you have no other choice than to Compete.
GOD HAS CREATED US TO DO A SMALL PIECE OF WORK THAT IS ASSIGNED TO US.
WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE A BILLION DOLLAR IDEA, MEANS THAT GOD HAS CREATED YOU TO JUST ENJOY THE LIFE AT YOUR FULLEST.
Statisity of a COIN
Why do YOU need MONEY ?
Think About the reasons given below :
- food
- clothing
- house
- family nourishment
- love
- party
- fun with friends
- communication
- *to show off
I think it is the last point that i mentioned... * to Show off your value in society *
there is a mentality in our society that if you are rich then you will be respected among other people.
you will no longer be a common person rather you will become a special one.
I want to ask you that how will you feel when you go outside with a close friend of yours and decide to shop something. meanwhile he asks for 200 hundred bucks?
you start thinking whether you should lend him money or not?, or will he return the money or not ?
suppose of another day, both of you go out to for food and he pays all the money.
how will you feel ?
The first thought will be the scene of the day you gave him 200 bucks.
you feel amazing.
That feeling is awesome.
In the recent times people are rich, they have a lots of money with them but they don't know where to spend it
So, where should be spend our money ?
- we should try to spend money on things that are on the top of our priority list (like food, books, clothing etc.)
- we should not hesitate to lend money to your friends.
- Don't even get worried about the money you lend to your friend. you will definitely get it back one or the other day.
- Spend money on the things that makes your loving ones happy.(going for a weekend outside)
- Don't hesitate to donate a little part of money to people in need or you can donate to non profitable organizations working for the betterment of humanity,society or environment.
I can assure you that you will get to know the worth of Money that you have.
it will definitely make you happy , renowned and valuable person in the society.
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